Global Dating During The Recession

Hanging Tough

I recently read an article in the New Yorker about companies who plow through recessions and even pickup spending, advertising, and costs through tough times. Sounds counter intuitive, doesn’t it? The article points out that many a time; these companies end up gaining lots of ground while other companies are cutting back and loosing ground.

I feel that this applies 100% to global dating. In the midst of this economic recession, many men are cutting back on travel plans. People are scared to take vacations for fear of losing their jobs. Less people in general are traveling. This might be bad for the airline industry, but its great for global dating and I’ll tell you why (at least from the men’s point of view).

As less and less men travel to places like Latin America, South East Asia, and Eastern Europe because of the recession, there is increasingly less foreigners you have to compete with in these regions of the world.

Also as less men travel to these places for vacation, business and leisure, you’ll be more of a rare commodity. As the supply of foreign men in Brazil, for example, dwindles, the value of these foreign men will inevitably go up.

Another thing to consider is the fact that the airline industry is suffering greatly at this point in time because of the recession. Right now, airlines are offering great travel deals in order to entice travelers who are no longer spending on plane tickets.

So don’t put off your travel plans if you have them. And if you don’t you might want to start looking a mid recession get away. Right now might be the best time to travel.
In my next blog post I’m going to specifically discuss the pros and cons the recession is having on global dating.

Talk Soon,

Are You Interested In Mail Order Brides? Congratulations!

Are you crazy to think about seeking out mail order brides?

No, you are not. It is NOT weird to consider dating, or even marrying a foreign woman. People around you may tell you so, but they are wrong.

Every Western man with a foreign wife would have married a woman from his own country – if he had found one he really liked. The fact that you didn’t is nothing to be ashamed of.

We all know it takes TWO to be happy. And if a foreign woman gives you what you need, why shouldn’t you date/marry her?

We live in an era of globalization. It has never been easier to look over the border.

If you visit a foreign brides site, or any international dating, or international romance site, you’ll be overwhelmed by the beauty of many women.

Mail order brides do not only look good. They also have high moral standards. They are not afraid to work, not afraid to raise children and not afraid to take care of her husband. Many foreign women find stability more important than short term profit. And they have a sense for romance that, in the West, is nowadays only seen in old black and white Hollywood movies.

There are more reasons to consider an Eastern European, Latin or Asian wife or girlfriend.

Online dating is efficient. More and more people find a partner online.

If you have a busy job, your time is limited. Spending night after night in restaurants or cinema’s might bring you some good meals and thrilling movies, but the outcome is by far not always romantic.

When you meet foreign women online, you communicate when you have time, and you travel when you have time.

You are in control.

When you choose to email or chat with a mail order bride, you make the most important decision in your life. Because if you do it well, you will find a woman that will make you happy for the rest of your life.

The Global Dating Revolution Guide helps you to take the right steps.

Just a couple thoughts about the popular term I hear alot being tossed around the Internet “mail order brides.” I thought I’d discuss this term in a positive light instead the negative one, which is usually what comes up on the Internet.

Your friend,

Dan DeLa Cruz

Tips For Traveling Alone

Traveling alone can be a tough decision. Sometimes it’s a little nerve wrecking going to a foreign country by yourself. I’ve had this feeling myself many times when traveling alone, but over the years I’ve found ways to make every trip lots of fun, even when I’m traveling alone.

Step 1: Make some friends online. This is a must do, especially for those shy guys out there. If you don’t think you’ll be able to approach women on the streets or in clubs when you travel, you have to do the dirty work on the Internet before you get there. The good news is that it’s really easy, especially when you’re trying to meet foreign women. So get on the Internet start chatting with some women and start building some trust and friendships. After a few weeks of chatting on a regular basis, you’ll see that these women will warm up to you greatly.

You can get my book if you want the nitty gritty details about meeting foreign women online: Meet Foreign Women Online: The Complete Guide

I’ll give you one example. I was headed for Barranquilla, Colombia, and on this particular trip, I was going to head down on my own. I started sending out emails and making friends a month before I got to Barranquilla. By the time the final day of travel arrived, I had already made about 15 new female friends in that city. I have all of their email addresses and out of those 15, I’ve chatted consistently without about five of them, and I have those five ladies phone numbers. Two of them offered to pick me up at the airport; I opted for the one that I like more… So when I got to Barranquilla I had this beautiful girl, waiting there to give me a warm welcome! The moral of this story is that you need to get your butt online.

Step 2: Make friends on the plane, and in the airport. One of the best places to make friends and meet people, both men and women, is on the plane ride over. Plane rides are long and boring, and it’s the perfect place to start up a conversation with a stranger. A simple “where are you headed?”, can start up a conversation that could last the entire flight. I’ve met many male and female friends on the airplane and at airport gates while waiting for my flight.

Step 3: Approach and make friends! If you haven’t done step 1 and 2, then you’re last and only choice is step three. Some good people to befriend are taxi drivers, hotel personnel, waitresses, and cashiers. This approach is probably the toughest out of all three, and one of the main reasons is because of the time limitations you will most likely have on your trip. You’re also going to need some conversational abilities in the local language. This is why I strongly recommend going online first.

However, if you decide to take this route only, once you meet a girl in town, it’s going to take some time to build some trust, and if the girl works or goes to school you might not have enough time to make something happen. The benefit of meeting women online before you get there is that you will already have a certain amount of trust with the girl when you finally meet in person.

Approaching people on the streets is not easy for everyone but look at this way, if you’re in the lower tiers, there’s no easier place to approach women and people in general in the entire world.

But here’s a tip that will work in just about any location you travel too. If you see someone interesting, just ask them a question about the city. These are questions that should park YOUR genuine interest. Some questions can be:

• Do you know a good place to eat?
• Do you know a good place to get a drink?
• Can you tell me how to get to so and so? (park, court, hotel)

After you ask your question, you can add. “The reason I ask, is because I’m not from here, I’m visiting”

Those are some of my tips for traveling alone! Remember, you don’t have to be alone for the entire trip, most likely the only place you’ll be alone is on the ride the airport when you’re leaving because after that, it’s time to meet the women you met online and make more friends on the plane.

Talk soon,

Barranquilla Trip Summary Part 1

Live in direct form Barranquilla, Colombia!

It’s been five weeks since I touched down in Barranquilla, and it’s been a hell of a time. Carnavales, good food, friendly caramel skinned ladies, and lots of sun… I can’t complain and I hope some of you guys can someday make the lifestyle change I’m in the process of making now. As the author of The Global Dating Revolution, I felt I really had to lead by example. I had a good, high paying, comfortable job back in New York but I left all that, including my apartment, and my girlfriend (I have a new girlfriend in Barranquilla, and a new apartment ), in order to prove to myself as well my readers that I don’t just talk the talk, I’m really walking the walk and am now living in Latin America. I don’t know if I’ll stay in Colombia longer then 6 months, I’ll play it by ear, but all I know is that I’ll be living somewhere in Latin America for the foreseeable future. So, I now give you part 1 of my recap of my five weeks here in Barranquilla Colombia.
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To All The Doubters

The Question of Proof

Although 99% of you out there KNOW that I speak the truth about the accessibility, friendliness and attractiveness of foreign women, I’ve had a few doubters question my authenticity.

So with this post I’m going to address any and all doubts that have been expressed about the matter:

#1. You want proof? Prove it to yourself!

I’m sharing with you things I’ve learned over the course of a 10-year period. I know this stuff works, because I’ve seen it change the lives of many men, but you don’t need to watch me picking up some girl in a mall to know it’s true. What I suggest is to take one trip, one vacation, one weekend, to any place in South East Asia, Latin America, or Eastern Europe, and go out into the malls, into the city, and into the bars and clubs. While you’re there you will most likely notice that the women are more flirtatious, and numerous, and if you approach, you will have better results then what you get back at home. All of you doubters out there, should go and give it a shot, and then when you come back as a converted global dater, then you can get my book and find out WHY foreign environments and foreign women are so different in the first place.

#2. You want proof? Ask a someone else!

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. Find someone in your social circle that has traveled to one of these regions and ask them about the women. Better yet, find a guy that has lived down there. Don’t take my word for it, ask someone else. Most likely, any guy that has traveled outside to what I like to call the “lower tiers” has noticed a few of the things I point out in my videos and books. Now, you won’t get as in depth an analysis as I’ve done in my books, because I actively broke this stuff down over several years and analyzed and tested everything to get to this point , but you will get an agreement that the dating environment favors the males in these parts of the world.

#3. The proof is in the book.

If you would actually take the time to read my book, you would realize that I back up all my information with facts, and a lot of data. I’m not just spewing out random information; I actively broke down the social dynamics of both upper and lower tiers to come up with my global dating revolution book. Every guy that has read the book, has said they’ve gotten their money’s worth. I sell the book for $27, but I believe the information and knowledge that the reader gets is easily worth 10 times more, if not priceless, and the overwhelming positive response I’ve gotten from the readers leads me to believe my assumption is right.

#4. The point of my videos are to show you the beauty of foreign women

One of the points I make in my book is that, for various reasons, the lower tiers are filled with more attractive women that the upper tiers. My videos are an attempt to portray this fact by showing you the beauty of women in places like Brazil, Costa Rica, and Colombia.

#5. You don’t want to believe me? Be my guest, stay where you are and we’ll talk in 10 years and see if you’re ready to try out something new.

Hey if you want to stay in LA, or Chicago, or wherever you are and keep chasing after your local women there, be my guest. But as for me and the thousands of readers of my blog, we know where the real action is! You can have LA, me and my guys will gladly take Medellin Colombia and Belo Horizonte Brazil. If you don’t want to hear me out and give my advice a try, you’re the only one that looses out.

#6. Yes this is a business.

Yes, I have left my normal full time job to pursue a new career as a global dating adviser and author. Yes, I want to sell my book, but I do so in an ethical manner. My approach is to give you as much free material as possible, that provides you with value. I feel I’ve given hundreds of dollars in value through my blog and videos and in return, if you’d like to learn more about global dating you can pay $27 and get the book and get even more value. As I’ve said before, every guy that has read the book has had nothing but great reviews.

Now having covered all of the objections I’d like to say one thing. I’m open to the idea of video taping some of the approaches I do in public places while I’m in Latin America. Right now, as you may know, I’m living in Barranquilla Colombia. I only see two problems with this, as of now. First of all, all of the approaches will be in Spanish or Portuguese (If I’m in Brazil). So if you guys don’t speak the language, you won’t know what the hell I’m saying. Another problem is that I don’t have the equipment to do this. I’m going to have to purchase a small wearable camera, and a wearable wireless mic so that I can capture everything in the interaction. It’s something that I’m open to, and I’ll look into, but regardless of whether I actually tape any approaches you should have more then enough proof just by taking your own trip, reading my blog and book, and asking other people, even other people on this blog.

Later,

Interview With Immigration Attorney Gary Bala

I recently did a 40 minute phone interview with Gary Bala, an Immigration attorney with 25 years of experience. I think you guys will find the 40 minute conversation very valuable. If you do find it useful, make you sure you leave some feedback!

Some of you guys are probably going to find the girl of your dreams when you travel to the lower tiers, and it’s only natural for some of you to look at establishing a family and marriage with that special person. When and if you find yourself at that point, you’ll need to contact someone like Gary to help you through the process.

In this interview we covered some of the most frequently asked questions that Gary gets as an immigration attorney. Gary sheds some light on Global Dating and intercultural relationships and marriage from his point of view as a legal adviser and avid traveler.

Gary can be reached at his website www.garybala.com or by phone at 610-446-VISA (8472).

If you still haven’t gotten my books! What are you waiting for!?

Here are the links:

The Global Dating Revolution

The Guide To Meeting Foreign Women Online

More updates coming soon!

Later,

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