Men's Travel Guide & International Dating with Foreign Women

Ask A Latino Guy About Foreign Women

If you live in the United States chances are you Interact with a Latino guy in some way, shape or form. This is the perfect opportunity to get a glimpse into the world of International Dating and foreign women. It doesn’t even have to be a Latin o guy… There are many people from various parts of the world that migrated to the United States. You may be a friend or co-worker of a guy from Russia or Ukraine, or the Philippines.

Why am I telling you this?

Because, I don’t want you to take my word for the fact that foreign women, and foreign dating environments are better. I want you to find out for yourself, by asking those friends, co-workers, and neighbors, that you interact with on a daily basis.

Invite these guys for a drink, buy them a beer, talk about life, talk about the daily struggle, and then ask them how the women are back in their country…. Most likely 90% of them will tell you that it does not compare. In fact, most guys that migrate to the United States, stay womanless for many many years. Many of them end up bringing their girl friends/wives over illegally in order to have that female companionship that keeps them from not going crazy.

I’ve seen it too many times. Most Latino guys get shock therapy when it comes to how easy they have it back home with women back home as compared to the United States. I’m sure that it’s not that much different in places like Canada, Western Europe, Australia etc.

You don’t have to believe me… ask around, but ask foreign guys. I’m just stating the facts. If you want to learn more and get all the nitty gritty details about foreign women and international dating, visit the global dating revolution foreign women guide.

Sample Online Scammer Email

Scammers are pretty easy to spot online but I figured I’d throw this up here just as a sample. I received this message on an ehow.com account I have.

I get scammer emails all the time all over the place. I mean the last place I would think I would get one is on ehow? But I also get them when on skype, on yahoo chat, and in my inbox.

Please don’t click on any links received by anyone claiming to be a hot Russian girl or a lonely Russian girl or whatever. Not even if you’re curious.

In the best case scenario it will be someone trying to scam you, in the worst case scenario it will be some Russian hackers trying to install some malware on your computer that could steal your information, spam your contacts, and even use your computer to attack others. As soon as you click that link, your done!

So don’t even be curious. If you’re getting emails from people you never know or contacted then you shouldn’t be opening them up at all, not even out of curiosity (did I say that enough times?).

Here is just one recent message I got on ehow:

Hello my dear.
My name is Faith i saw your profile today and i became interested so please i will like you to email me back through my email address thus:(faith_****@yahoo.com). please i will like you to send me your email address so that i will tell you more about my self and also my picture you to know who i am .hope you understand.thanks.And i will like you to contact me trough my email adress(faith_*****@yahoo.com)
Am waiting to see your lovely reply soonest..
Miss Faith

One last tip:
Because of the threat of hackers/spammers and scammers, I advise you create a separate email account for your interactions with foreign women. A new email account gives various benefits:

#1. It’s an account that isn’t tied to you personally. Your main account may be tied to your bank accounts, work etc. A new account won’t have any of your personal ties, and you can even create it under a fake name.

#2. A new account won’t be in any spammer databases. Spammers and hackers break into computer systems and steal email addresses and sell them in bundles for thousands of dollars in the black market. If you’re email address is older chances are it’s in some sort of spammer databases, which is why new email addresses generally have little to now spam. Creating a new email address will give you months of spam free communication so you don’t have to weed through this crap on a daily basis.

#3. It’s an account you can afford to loose. If you get bored, or you start getting too much spam etc, you can just delete it or not sign back in, you never have to look at it again.

#4. Once you know your dealing with a legitimate foreign girl you give her your real email address if it’s easier for you communicate with her this way. This gives you a funneling process for weeding out all the spam and malicious emails. It’s an added layer of protection.

All this stuff shouldn’t deter you from going out there and trying to meet foreign women. I’m just informing you so that you’re armed with the best information so you are prepared.

“Forewarned, forearmed; to be prepared is half the victory.”
– Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra

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Where is Dan DeLa Cruz in 2011?

Hey guys,

I know I’ve been missing in action for a couple months now… No I wasn’t kidnapped by Colombian Rebels in Colombia…

I’m still in New Jersey and I’m actually hustling my ass off trying to make as much money as humanly possible, and I’ll tell you why…

Over the years I’ve been reading and learning a lot more about the economy and I’ve come to the conclusion that the U.S. dollar is headed for a long term decline. At the same time over the years while traveling to south American I’ve seen the power of the almighty dollar head further down with each passing day. I remember when Canada use to be so cheap. You could go to the best strip clubs in Montreal and get a lap dance, give the girl a 10 dollar bill and it was like giving her a 50 by today’s standards… Brazil same thing, Rio was cheap for Americans heading down there with dollars. More recently I’ve seen the dollar decline even against currencies like the Colombian Peso…

I decided that if I want the prospect of long term travel and life I had to make some sacrifices and take some drastic measures. I decided I’d come back to New Jersey and work like never before, at the same time sticking to my guns and only dating foreign women. I decided to focus on Newark NJ where I’ve met and dated a nice handful of Brazilian Girls Here In the United States. But my number one priority is to make money and to invest it in things that will protect me against the decline of the dollar…

So basically my investment strategy is to invest in countries and currencies that will prosper during the inflationary times ahead. I’ve invested in commodities in countries such as China, Australia, and Canada. I’ve heavily invested in sectors such as oil and natural gas, and especially precious metals. I’m also investing in gold and silver. I’m doing all of these things because after all the reading I’ve done and hearing out both sides of the arguments, I’m convinced the dollar will continue to decline over the years which means as time goes by traveling for Americans will get more and more expensive. I highlighted all of these concerns in a past article called Why American Men Should Be Worried About Inflation And The Dollar.

Since writing the above article in 2009 commodities have soared and the dollar has continued to decline. Every day the dollar reaches all time record lows against many currencies. I’m not a doomsayer, I don’t think the world is going to end, but I do think the purchasing power of the dollar on a global scale will continue to decline. So I would recommend all my readers to do their own research on both sides of the story.. I’ve come to my conclusion and that’s why I’m working my tail off for the next 6 to 12 more months so I can invest a bit more and eventually feel safe and protected when I head back down to Latin America… Next stop will most likely be Brazil…

2010 International Dating Summary

2010 is coming to a close and it’s been a great year for International Dating… I see a lot more guys coming on board including some main streem dating gurus. Theres a still a lot of backlash from some men, but mostly from women. I don’t think International Dating will ever be 100% accepted by everyone. But as more and more guys start looking abroad, it will become more and more acceptable.

I remember when I first started writing my book it was very hard to find people addressing issues such as obesity, but now a lot of main streem bloggers are joining the fight against lazy women who don’t take care of themselves.

When I started there was already a good amount of men complaining about feminism. But that number has now risen exponentially with many well read bloggers and gurus addressing the fact that men have lost their masculinity and women here and in countries like the U.S. have gained masculinity.

I don’t feel so alone now when confronting these and other issues… And I feel like other men are starting to wake up and realize that what I’ve been saying has been right on the money.

On the other hand the recession has really hurt men’s ability to travel. There’s a lot of guys that would travel today, if they had the money, and were more financially stable. And it’s not just Americans. The crisis has hit most of Europe and pretty everyone around the world is feeling the pinch. The global slowdown means a slow down in global dating as well, because the center piece of international dating is the ability to travel.

It’s possible to date foreign women locally, but traveling is by far the best option. It’s one thing to chat with someon online, but to really make this happen you have to cross some boarders, and that means getting on a plane, traveling, and spending some money on hotels and other travel expenses.

Hopefully you guys are rolling up your sleeves and working hard to save money to travel. That’s what I’ve been doing…

FYI, my top two favorite countries are Colombia and Brazil… If these were stocks, they’d be my favorite picks for 2011 and beyond.

The Manliest Girl In Colombia

If I told you that the manliest girl I met in Colomba as a Colombian/American girl, would you beleive me? Earlier this year I spent 6 months in Colombia and during that entire trip one girl really stands out in my memory…

My home base in Colombia was Barranquilla, and I often took trips to Cartagena for a week or weekend. Sometimes I would go with friends, sometimes I would meet friends in Cartagena. I was about 4 months into my trip and 3 months into my coastal stay. I had already spent tons of time out in bars, clubs, malls, beaches, not to mention Carnavales and most of women I’d seen were average Colombian women. Colombian women in general can range from attractive to smoking hot. But it’s not just their looks. Colombian women, like many other women from all over Latin America take extra time to fix themselves up, even if they’re on a tight budget. If I had to draw an example I would say it’s the equivalent of how guys in the U.S. who spend all their money on their cars. They might still live at home with their parents, or live in a crappy apartment, not pay their bills, but they’re driving around in nice cars with 20 inch chrome rims. Those of you who go to Colombia will probably notice that you’ll find a lot more women attractive, and thats one of the reasons, because the women like to dress up and take care of their looks.

So I was out on one of the Main strips in Cartagena doing some window shopping with my friend. She was going to buy a bikini to go to the beach the next morning, and were hoping from shop to shop. We ended up going into this one shop where two girls greeted us. As soon as I saw the second girl, I knew she wasn’t really from Colombia. This girl was dressed up in baggy pants, with a big baggy t-shirt, she had a ton of tatoos and her hair was a little sloopy. Immediately I thought: “A Colombian girl wouldn’t be caught dead, out in public looking like this girl”. It’s the truth. You don’t know how many times I’ve heard Colombian girls mention that they can’t go out because they haven’t gotten their hair done, or becuase they’re waiting to do their nails, I love it. I love women who take care of themselves and their appearance.

So this very manly girl working in this store greeted us in Spanish, she didn’t say much so I couldn’t pick up an accent but just by her looks I was certain she wasn’t from Colombia. My friend was browsing some outfits, and my curiosty was driving me crazy so I asked the girl if she’s from here and struck up a conversation. It turns out she was of Colombian decent, but she grew up in the United States. How come I wasn’t surprised? We kept on with the small talk, but the whole time I was thinking in the back of my mind: “What the hell is it that makes women so manly, in the United States?” I mean feminism plays a big role but it’s something about the etire country that really changes most women. This particular girl seemed like a nice enough person, but she dressed like a guy. Maybe she was a lesbian, but even the lesbians in Colombia are a lot more feminine.

I know it doesn’t happen with all women, but it happens a lot more often that anywhere else. And it doesn’t just span one cultural niche in the country, it spans everything from blacks to whites to latinos. This girl was the manliest girl I’d seen in all my time in Colombia, and not just the past six months, and she happened to be from the U.S. She had that whole west coast mexican “chola” look to her. All she needed was a bandana. In case you don’t know what that look is like, it looks something like this:

Who would you rather take on a double date with your budy? The girls above or a pair of regular Colombian girls that look this regular Colombian girl:

Brazilian Women In The USA

After spending the first 7 months of 2010 in Colombia, I decided I’m now headed to Brazil, but I have to take care of some things back in Jersey for a few months before I can head out. So the plan was to come back here and hit Newark hard and try to meet as many Brazilian girls as possible. Newark has the largest population of Brazilians outside of Brazil anywhere in the world. It’s the largest Brazilian community numbering in the tens of thousands. Newark is also home to many many many sexy Brazilian women, which is why it’s become my number one hang out.

Why Date Brazilian Women In The USA?
My reason for dating ONLY Brazilian women since I’ve been back is mainly because I only date foreign women now, even when I’m back in the United States. Since I’m going to Brazil, Brazilian women are the perfect choice in foreign women. I love Brazilian women, and an added bonus is that I get to practice my Portuguese with them before I get to Brazil. So I’ve focused on meeting Brazilian women who don’t have much time in the country. It’s not easy to find these diamonds in the rough, but it’s not impossible either, especially in Newark.

Even though Newark NJ gives you a small taste of Brazil it doesn’t compare to being in Brazil. There are setbacks to being in the U.S. even if your in the largest community of Brazilians in the world. For one, a lot of the Brazilian girls you’ll meet are Americanized. I personally shy away from Brazilian girls who are too Americanized. Even though it’s the next best thing to 100% Americanized woman, why settle for them, when you can find Brazilian girls who have only been here a couple of years and still have that foreign flare to them?

The second obstacle is the ratios. As I pointed out in my book “The Global Dating Revolution” one of the worst problems for men in the U.S. is the ratio problems. Otherwise known as Sausage fests. Newark NJ is no stranger to these sausage fiestas. A lot of times you’ll go out and even though you’ll see a lot of smoking hot Brazilian women, there will be a lot more dudes and male competition. However don’t fret. If you’re looking to zero in on those diamonds in the rough, one excellent tip is to learn Portuguese. Since these girls don’t have a lot of time here, they probably don’t know much if any English, which means that if you know Portuguese, you’ll have the upper hand over all those guys who don’t, even during a sausage fest. I know, I know learning Spanish or Portuguese is tough, but if want to set yourself apart, you’ll have to do it, especially if you want to get those girls that don’t have much time here, which happen to be the best catches.

So if Newark doesn’t compare to Brazil then why bother with it?
Because it’s the next best thing to being in Brazil even with all the negatives. Brazilian women who’ve lived in Brazil (like other Latin countries) have had to compete heavily with other women on their looks and femininity back in their countries, so they’re use to keeping themselves in shape, looking good, and acting feminine and they bring this attitude with them to the U.S.A. Since the Brazilian community in Newark is 1st generation immigrants for the most part, it means a lot of the Brazilian culture is retained in the women (at least for the near future). Even though I’ve seen some Brazilian women let themselves go and gain weight, the obesity rate among Brazilian women in Newark is probably very low compared to obesity rates anywhere in the country. This means you’ll see a lot of very attractive women in Newark.

Where can you meet Brazilian women in the U.S.A?
So if you want to meet Brazilian women in the U.S.A you have to go to places like Newark NJ, also known as sanctuary cities. Places that have very high percentage of immigrants from various other countries, not just Brazil. The biggest concentrations of Brazilians in the USA live in the Greater Areas of Boston (In Massachusetts Framingham, Boston, Cambridge, Everett and Malden have a lot of Brazilians), New York City, Miami, and New Jersey (Especially Newark), while the smaller concentrations are in different cities of Connecticut, California, and Washington.

Check out this video of a Brazilian beauty pageant in Newark:

If you happen to be in Newark NJ, here’s a small map of a few places you can check out for Brazilian food and drinks. My recommendation is to check out Adega bar, which always has top notch model caliber bartenders, all Brazilian of course. As time goes on I’ll update the map with some of the more “underground” Brazilian bars and hang outs in the area.

View Newark – Brazilian Women Map in a larger map

Why The Recession Will Kill Game

So I’ve been back in the states for two months after spending about 7 months in Colombia. I’m leaving for Brazil soon, and have a bunch of new blog posts queued up for the next couple of weeks. Since I’ve been back I’ve been dating only Brazilian women and I have a bunch of good info on that for you guys coming up in later blog posts. Luckily for me I don’t live far from Newark New Jersey which has the largest population of Brazilians outside of Brazil, and tons of hot Brazilian women from all over brazil, but this post isn’t about that… It’s about this nasty recession we’re in, and how it’s going to effect dating in the United States and around the world. Don’t buy Obama’s politically motivated claims the recession is over. We all know it’s not over, but all hope isn’t lost. You just have to shift your focus a bit to fit the times we’re living in.

Forget Game, Start Making Money

As the global recession deepens and money becomes more scarce for all people around the world you can bet on one thing. “Game” will loose ground to “Money.” In the past, especially in the United States and the wealthier nations, the economic prosperity of these countries allowed a relatively high standard of living for all. Everybody had money (so no one cared about it), everyone had a car, women were making just as much as men, everyone had a decent paying job.

The bottom half of the pyramid of needs had been fulfilled for all the women, so they started to slack of and get fatter, while the attractive ones got a lot more picky with their choice in men. You didn’t need a good education and job anymore (like in the early 1900s), now you needed seduction skills, and it didn’t matter if a guy with good social skills didn’t have money, because the women probably had their own money, or they had plenty of guys on the side willing and able to support their lifestyles.

Fast forward to 2010, we’re in the midst of a probably a decade long global slump, and maybe an even longer downturn in the U.S. As things gradually get worse, a man’s financial stability will become more and more important once again to women all around the world. As time ticks, attractive American women will no longer have a endless line of guys willing to wine and dine them. As the coffers dry up, they’ll care less and less about a the smooth talkers and more and more about the guys who are financial stable. Don’t get me wrong, social skills will always help, but gone are the days where attractive women (especially spoiled American women) couldn’t give two shits if you had a good job or not.

So what’s the best plan of action for the next decade:

#1: Take care of your finances. Although social skills help, don’t believe all the hype. Take care of your finances. Work hard and make/save money and invest. You can use this money to travel to places like Latin America where you’ll spend less and be able to date many more available and attractive women.

#2: Don’t spend your money on American women. Rather then spend your hard earned money here in America on American women, you should take the lead of the smart money which is investing outside of the U.S. and spend it in places where you’re going to enjoy it more: Eastern Europe, South East Asia, and Latin America. If you can’t travel and have to tough it out in the States or wherever you live the next point is for you.

#3: Embrace the recession. If you a good job and are financially stable, the recession is the best thing that could have happened to you. You have the option of traveling abroad, but your local women will also be more wooed about your financial stability. It will probably get easier to meet and date women if you have your finical house in order.

Just how much money will matter in dating and relationships, depends on just how bad this recession gets. As the supply of financially stable men dries up, their demand will increase. It’s supply and demand. My suggestion is to concentrate on handling our finances because it will undoubtably become more important with your local women, especially in the United States where things are projected to get a lot worse. Remember that money will also allow you travel and take advantage of the much better dating opportunities abroad.

If you’re financially stable, you can afford to spend some time and money to learn some seduction skills, game, etc. Throw in some gym time as well. Depending on what you learn some of it might help, but that stuff comes later in the pyramid of needs, and right now, it’s time to get back to the basics and handle that bottom half of that pyramid. If you already have that bottom half handled, then I suggest you use your financially stability to explore both romantic and financial opportunities abroad.

The Risks And Rewards of Dating Foreign Women

A lot of times when I think about international dating and meeting and dating foreign women, especially when traveling abroad is involved, I think about the investing in foreign markets. You might think this is a weird connection, but let me explain…

About three years ago before I started traveling full time, I started to get worried about the U.S. economy. Real estate prices were tumbling for months on end, and most people in the main stream media were forecasting a booming recovery. There were a few people who I happened to catch by luck that seemed a bit more realistic, and who were predicting a huge downturn.

I read up on both sides of the story and the “dooms day” people seemed to have a lot more common sense and facts behind them.

Many of these “dooms day” investors had been recommending investing in foreign markets for the past 10 years and they had seen much better returns then in the U.S. markets. Regardless of this, most of consensus among mainstream investors was that the U.S. was by far the safest place to invest, hands down, no questions asked.

I decided that the mainstream media was just propaganda, and I decided to listen to the few investors who were investing abroad because this strategy made more sense to me.

I don’t have a lot of money to invest but I decided to move the little I had over to foreign markets, which by mainstream standards was the riskiest move of all.

Three years later, I can tell you from personal experience, that I made the right choice. Many of my acquaintances, co-workers and friends got killed in 2008 in the U.S markets, and they still haven’t recovered to this day. Meanwhile I’ve seen my investments increase dramatically, even with all the volatility in the global markets.

So this brings me back to my original point. If you ask 90% of people they think your crazy if you invest in foreign markets and not in the U.S. but all these people missed the boom in foreign markets over the past 10 years.

It’s the same with International dating. Most people will throw out objections and reasons why you shouldn’t travel to Colombia, or Costa Rica, or Brazil or a host of other places to meet women. But those are the same 90% who probably missed one of the best investment opportunities of the decade: investing in foreign markets and precious metals.

Yes there are risks to traveling to places like Colombia. Mainly safety. But the risks are well worth the rewards. And it’s not a warzone either. It’s not like you’re heading into Baghdad. There’s probably more petty crime in Colombia then your own back yard, this is true, but if you take the recommended safety precautions, and don’t let yourself get taken advantage of, the risks are minimal and the rewards are probably better that anything you’ve experienced.

You can call me the Dr. Doom of U.S. dating. I’m telling you dating abroad is the better option. I’ve written a book about why it IS the better option, and I’ve listed all my research including government, and international statistics that are hard to argue against. It’s called The Global Dating Revolution. I’m not telling you it’s risk-less, nothing in life is risk-less, but the risk of staying local and not really having the options with women that you really want are much worse in my mind then having a bit more physical risk in a place like Brazil or Colombia but being satisfied with your relationship or your dating life.

Too Many Hot Women to Compete With

“There’s just too much competition. There’s too many good looking women around here to compete with.” That’s what she told me as we were riding in the taxi. We were headed down Calle 72 in the northern part of Barranquilla. It was our second date, and we were headed to the mall to walk around and do some window shopping.

I’m not sure exactly how it came up. But it wasn’t the first time I’ve heard attractive women complain about the tough female competition in Latin America.

The thing that always gets me, is that I’ve never heard a woman complain once about the tough female competition in the United States. But in Latin America, no matter what country I’ve been to, I always run into women who complain about the dating environment.

I’ve heard it from Ecuadorian women, Brazilian women, Colombia women, Peruvian women, and even Bolivian women, just to name a few. Not every girl complains but enough women complain to the point where you start asking yourself? Is there really something to this?

But when it comes to American women I’ve never had one complain in my presence. I read an article on a website about an American woman who couldn’t compete with the Latinas in Miami, but other then that, it’s never happened.

So what gives? Are Latinas just whiners? Or is there something else going on here?

10 years ago I might have just chalked all this complaining to coincidence. But today I’m a much more experienced guy, and I know the REAL reasons why so many women complain in Latin America. I’ve cataloged and detailed everything in my book about International Dating and Foreign Women. Once you read it, you’ll have the upper hand over all those guys that have no clue why Latin American women complain about their local female competition.

Seeking Opportunity Abroad In International Dating

A recent article on Newsweek titled “Seeking Opportunity Abroad,” detailed how an increasing number graduates from the U.S.A’s top business schools are seeking jobs abroad instead of staying right here in the United States.

Here’s a small excerpt of the article:

When Mahesh Murarka graduated from the Tuck School of Business at Dartmouth in June 2009, he shunned the traditional B-school path of accepting a job in banking, consulting, or marketing in New York, London, or San Francisco. Instead, he returned to his native India to work for a reinsurance company with headquarters in Switzerland. “There is a lot more opportunity here right now,” he says. “The change in India is mind-blowing.”

Many of the nation’s top business schools report an increase in the number of students who are interested in working overseas in emerging markets such as India, China, Russia, and Brazil. Roughly 25 percent of recent Wharton M.B.A. graduates are now working abroad, compared with 16 percent a few years ago, and the trend no longer applies simply to international M.B.A. students who opt to return home after earning their degrees. In addition to working in finance and consulting, these M.B.A. students are moving overseas to work in real estate, investing, energy, and infrastructure. “It definitely feels like it’s not a temporary hiccup,” says Michelle Antonio, director of the MBA Career Management at Wharton. “The students feel like that’s where the action is.”

What’s good for the MBA is good for the average guy who wants to better his dating results. If there can be more opportunity abroad for a person’s career. Or if there can more investment opportunities abroad. Or if companies can see more opportunities to expand abroad. Can there also be opportunities to better your dating results abroad?

The answer is: Can I Get a Hell Yeah!?

There are places on this planet where dating, and meeting women is tougher (from a man’s point of view). There are also places in this world like Latin America, Eastern Europe and South East Asia where meeting women and dating is easier. Of course nothing will be handed to you on a silver platter. There are obstacles to overcome, like language, culture, time constraints, etc.

Despite all international dating obstacles it’s never been easier to expand your search for women, love, and romance abroad. My global dating program and international dating guide, will walk you through the entire international dating process including how to navigate International dating websites, marriage agencies, travel, scammers, and everything else you need to know to have international dating success.

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But regardless of all the obstacles the bottom line is that there is more opportunity abroad, both for recent college graduates, and for regular guys who want want to improve their dating results.