Mail Order Bride Beaters Need Not Apply

Part of the reason there is such a bad connotation with mail order brides, international dating, and foreign women is because of irresponsible, wife beating guys who take advantage of foreign women. Personally I have no respect for men that beat their wives or any woman for that matter. If you want to slug it out, do it with a guy your own size.

There’s also those men who want to keep their foreign wife or girlfriend locked up in the house against her will. And those that verbally abuse and keep women in abusive relationships. That’s not what my website is about and if you’re just looking for a woman to abuse in any of these ways, then please look elsewhere.

These are the types of guys who give feminists, the media, and politicians the amo needed to establish laws like the IMBRA.

However, there are two problems with the people that try to paint all international dating and all men who seek out foreign women as guys who just want to abuse “innocent, helpless, uneducated” foreign women.

#1. First of all these people fail to realize the domestic violence and abuse is a common occurrence, even among domestic couples. Just take a look at some of these statistics, taken from the commission on domestic violence:

• In a 1995-1996 study conducted in the 50 States and the District of Columbia, nearly 25% of women and 7.6% of men were raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, or dating partner/acquaintance at some time in their lifetime (based on survey of 16,000 participants, equally male and female).
• Intimate partner violence made up 20% of all nonfatal violent crime experienced by women in 2001.
• Of females killed with a firearm, almost two-thirds were killed by their intimate partners. The number of females shot and killed by their husband or intimate partner was more than three times higher than the total number murdered by male strangers using all weapons combined in single victim/single offender incidents in 2002.

The people that don’t take this into account make it seem as though domestic couples never experience domestic violence or abuse and only foreign women are victims.

#2. They don’t understand that there are a lot of good guys who are just tired of dealing with the women of the developed nations, for many reasons. I’ll list some of the most common reasons:

• Obesity: A lot of these women are simply out of shape and not attractive
• Feminism: Many of these women have lost touch with their true feminine side. They don’t know how to show true affection, and be totally feminine with a man because they see it as a sign of weakness. By the same token this is one of the reasons why they don’t feel they need to be in shape and have feminine curves.
• Divorce rate: There are many guys who are scared to date these women because of all of the horror stories or domestic marriages. Ever heard of the 5 year itch? or the 50% divorce rate?
• Something different: It may never occur to people that foreign women are different. Some men find the accent sexy, or the way they dress, or the way they treat their men, or the way they dance, or the way they look. In today’s world it’s acceptable to invest in foreign countries, it’s acceptable to buy foreign made cars, it’s acceptable to travel and do business abroad, but to some people it’s not acceptable to look for romance abroad. What’s with the double standards?

If there are any women out there who happen to stumble onto to this post and wonder why International Dating is on the rise, you should consider reading my book “The Global Dating Revolution”, which in the first part of the book explains all of the cultural, environmental, economic, and demographic reasons why foreign women are more appealing to men. Also read The Art of Being Feminine by Melina Dean. I actually quote her book, in my book:

“Have you ever wondered why men are so attracted to foreign (non-Western) women?…in case you are thinking that I’m a Russian or foreign woman myself, think again! I’m a Western woman…men are getting fed up with… women who seem to no longer even want to think about wanting to please a man, and also appear as too aggressive, too independent, and don’t cultivate their femininity. I can see how that is a turn off to men…”

Nothing will ever be perfect. There will unfortunately be some foreign women who get involved with the wrong men. However, I’m not out to help or assist those men. My website is dedicated to helping all the good guys who put smiles on foreign women’s faces, and who end up with ear to ear smiles themselves. Don’t lump us all into the same group.

What Happens If You Get A Foreign Woman Pregnant?

I stumbled onto a question on yahoo answers from someone who may have gotten a foreign woman pregnant and now wants to know what could possibly be consequences immigration wise and with child support.

The question got me thinking about a few important aspects of traveling abroad that need to addressed. Here goes:

#1. American men, and men from other similar countries like Canada, Australia, and the UK have astounding reputations with foreign women. Women look up to us as the cream of the crop when it comes to men. We’re seen in general as highly educated, considerate, and ambitious among other things. Foreign women look at us much in the same way many of us look at foreign women as the best this world has to offer. Let’s not ruin our excellent reputation by acting without discretion or integrity when we travel abroad.

#2. Let’s not give the feminist movement anymore excuses to put barriers in our way to meeting foreign women. There are people in this world who would love nothing more then to ban 100% all your interaction with foreign women. Acting irresponsibly while traveling abroad, especially in your interactions with foreign women will only add fuel to the fire, and give these people more amo to put up more barriers. The International Marriage Broker Regulation Act is just one small example of the draconian measures that could be placed on your freedom to take part in international dating and meeting foreign women.

#3. Don’t take it out on these sweet foreign women. I know some of us might have a bit of resentment or bitterness towards women in general because I know a lot of us have gone through some tough times with our local women. Nasty divorces, custody battles, child support, bad breakups, alimony, cheating girlfriends, I know, I know. When you travel abroad make sure you don’t take it out on the foreign ladies because they seriously don’t deserve it.

#4. Use protection. I shouldn’t have to say this but some guys might need to hear it. It’s not worth the risk of STDs or getting a girl pregnant. It’s just the responsible thing to do.

#5. If a condom breaks or you get a foreign girl pregnant somehow I would hope that you do the responsible thing. If there is one bright side to a situation like this, it’s that fathering a child abroad would probably be much much cheaper then fathering a child in the U.S. or Canada, etc.

#6. When in doubt, act with Integrity. Foreign women are the sweetest most feminine creatures on this planet, they deserve to be treated with honesty, kindness, and respect. Let’s give them the best we have to offer. If any women deserve this treatment it’s definitely them!

I personally don’t know whether the guy asking the question just had a bad “break” with a condom or what, but for those of you wondering what the consequences might be, I did a bit of research and came up with this answer:

If you have a child support assessment or court order or child maintenance order from an overseas country that has an agreement with your country of residence (I’m assuming it’s the U.S.), the overseas authority can request the U.S. Child Support Agency to collect the child support from you. Now I’m not a lawyer, so I would suggest getting professional legal advice to get the definitive answer.