Women playing the field

[lmartel]

An example of how women play the field and can fool several men at once is best demonstrated through a friend of mine very recently. She had just moved to a new condo in Union City, NJ, with a great view of the Manhattan skyline. I went to see her around midnight one night, and wondered how she could afford all that since she recently left her job as a receptionist at a doctor's office. I didn't really want to be in her business since I hadn't seen her in a while, so I didn't put much focus into it. After about an hour, she gets a call from someone for a few minutes. After hanging up, she was visibly flustered and told me if I wanted to I could leave. I didn't quite understand why she was telling me that, but I wanted to stay. I asked if there was a problem and she was very blunt with her response. She told me that there was an older Indian guy (in his 40s) who pays ALL her bills. She met him while he was a patient in her job. The only catch was that whenever he feels like it, he'll call her to come to her place so they can have sex. I didn't really know how to respond, but after a few minutes, she changed her mind and said I could stay if I wanted to, except I had to hide. I figure I'd stay. However, right before that guy came over she received another call from someone else who she kept saying "no dont come over yet, I'll call you when I can". So when I asked "who's that??" she said oh that's this other guy I see. When I jokingly asked what he gives her, she said oh he gives me money. When I asked how much, she replied "oh he gives me like $50,000 every couple months". I couldn't believe what I was hearing this. That's when the doorbell rang and she told me to hide in the kitchen until she gets him into her bedroom. She clearly was not in the mood to do this but, she told him to hold on for a minute and she went to her room. She came after a couple of minutes wearing something sexy. So I hid as she opened the door for him. He had a thick accent but nevertheless was happy to see her. She immediately changed her attitude and pretended she felt the same way to see him, smiling saying "hey how are you?" It was obvious she couldn't care less how he felt. The next thing she said was, "go into the room and take your clothes off." I could tell she wanted to get this over with as fast as possible. As soon as he went into the room, she came into the kitchen and said it wouldn't take long, and if I wanted to I could sit in the living room because he never leaves the room until it's time to leave. So after about 30 minutes she comes out and said just to wait a little while longer, and went back in for about 15 minutes. The phone then rings and it's the second guy, who leaves a message asking when he can come over. I got nervous wondering if the Indian guy was able to hear, but she had the music loud, so he must have not heard a thing. She then came out and said "ok he's about to leave", so I went back into the kitchen and waited for him to leave. When she came back out she was relieved to have him leave. That's when the second guy called again asking to see her, which she said he could in 20 minutes. She hung up feeling even more flustered and said she hated her life. I almost felt angry for her complaining. Here she has 2 guys paying for every expense she can come up with. I didn't make my feelings known but she said she feels like she can't have her own life. She has to be available for whenever these guys wanted. It was hard to feel any sympathy for her but I'm sure she feels pressure to satisfy these guys' needs whenever they come calling. I asked her what she was doing tomorrow and she said she was going to see a third guy which was her real boyfriend, who I couldn't imagine what he paid for since the other 2 guys seemed to have it covered. I'm not even sure why these guys were so desperate for her. She wasn't extremely beautiful, she was a 6-7 at most. Definite 7 if she lost 10-15 pounds, not alot. She was Arabic and thick, and cute face, and her skin complexion was very light. She had long curly hair, great smile and curvy. I wouldn't mind dating her but I wouldn't have an arrangement like those 2 guys. After a minute of hearing her complain about her life, I didn't feel like waiting again so I just said goodbye and left.

[dandelacruz]

Attractive women definitely play the field in the U.S. It's hard for them to stay faithful when they have so many temptations, and eligible guys offering them everything from excitement, to time, to money.

[mrmody]

For $50K that doctor could visit another country and find a better women. I assume as an Indian he is in a arranged marriage and needs to find passion somewhere else.
I was just in Patterson NJ last week for a wedding. Very cute Columbian girl working at the Holiday Inn. I told her that the tallest buildling in San Jose, Costa Rica was the Holiday Inn. Unlike a lot on white American women, she enjoyed an innocent conversation. I did give her a business card but I have not heard back from her.