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5 Things I Wish I Knew About Women and Dating When I Was 22
Posted on October 19th, 2009 1 commentIf I had a time machine I wish I could go back in time to advise my younger self to do things differently when it comes to women and dating. Knowing what I know today I could have saved thousands of dollars, untold amounts of energy, and tons of effort. Even though I had an average love life, I can just imagine what things would be like if I had focused my time en energy not on spending to impress the local ladies, but saving to invest international dating.
1. The International dating scene is 10 times better then the best dating scene in the U.S. I can go on and on about why this is the case, but that’s just the way it is these days. Someday 100 years from today, this may not be the case, but as it stands today, if you really want to supercharge your love life international dating is the way to go.
2. There are millions of available foreign women online, and they’re eager to meet regular guys. Every day more and more foreign women make it online. The sheer numbers of foreign women available online is staggering and the figure gets larger every day. You don’t need to travel any longer to meet foreign women. You can meet them from the comfort of your own home, and decide to travel later.
3. Traveling is not as expensive as it seems. Considering that you can a ticket to Costa Rica for sometimes as low as $200 dollars round trip from New York to San Jose, travel is not expensive as it seems. When I was younger I didn’t know you could stay at hostels for as little as $5 dollars a day (Sometimes less), or that tickets could be so cheap. If you’re really on tight budget there’s still ways to swing a trip. Back when I was 22 I would routinely spend $100-$200 just on a single night out to New York City. If I could cut back on weekend expenses for a month I’d have enough for a 1 or 2 weeks stay in Costa Rica.
4. Foreign women are naturally friendly and no extra mind games are needed to meet and date them. When I was 22 I was certain that “seduction” tactics were necessary to get anywhere with women. I didn’t realize that they’re only necessary in places where the dating scene is stacked against you. In places like this you need something to stand out, and if you don’t have the looks or money, you’re going to need some routines, mental mind games, and be able to talk your way into romance. This isn’t necessary abroad. A simple Eminem style “Hi, my name is…” will do just fine. The foreign women will take care of rest.
5. It’s all about ROI. If you want to be successful in any part of life you have to look at the return on investment. Today I know that the ROI for trying to dating locally here in New York/New Jersey really isn’t all that great. So I invest my money, time and energy in the international dating scene. It’s the same reason why many investors are now investing their money abroad and not in U.S. stocks and assets. The ROI of foreign investments has been much greater in the past few years. So when it comes to my love life, I now prefer to invest in international dating and foreign women.
If you were giving advice to your 22 year self about women and dating, what would it be?
1 responses to “5 Things I Wish I Knew About Women and Dating When I Was 22”

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Hey Dan,
I’m a 22 year old recent college graduate. I found this website about two months ago and it resonated with me. I’m from California and the overwhelming majority of women here are superficial, stupid, vacuous, and have princess syndromes. My family is originally from Taiwan and the women there are 10 times better than American women. They dress femininely, talk gently, act humbly, look spectacularly, and respect men. My Asian-American girlfriend recently broke up with me because she “stopped feeling it” with me and felt we didn’t have enough chemistry, even though I had done nothing terrible or wrong to her. She broke up with me over a vague, random, trivial emotion, and it clicked with me once she broke up with me. Men are expendable and treated terribly in the US.
I’m 22 right now and I’ve decided that I’m going to take advantage of the Chinese boom and make my fortune. I do not want to deal with American women anymore as they are just crazy. My ex had a “perfect guy” in her head that she seeks out, but he’s unbelievably unrealistic. I find that most women in the States have a fantasy, fairy tale, prince charming guy in their heads, and only if more men would wake up, then will American women begin to stop believing that they’re entitled to some proverbial fantasy, fairy tale life.
Keep up the good work, Dan!
(I’ve yet to see a woman refute what you write about in a logical, evidence-based manner.)
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Jon April 1st, 2011 at 18:00