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  • Obesity: One of the Reasons It’s Harder to Date Attractive Women

    Posted on February 9th, 2010 Dan DeLa Cruz 2 comments

    A large chunk of my first book, The Global Dating Revolution, revolves around explaining the differences between different dating environments around the world. The truth is dating environments in various regions around the world differ for many reasons. Some reasons are economic, some are cultural, some are demographic, I get in the nitty gritty of all of this in my book. I call these negative environmental differences (from a man’s point of view), handicaps or sometimes “whammies.” If you can think of a better name for them please let me know!

    One of the most frightening handicaps in the United States and other wealthy regions of the world is the obesity problem. The following excerpt is taken from page 72 of The Global Dating Revolution:

    Have you ever entered a local bar or nightclub recently only to realize that an overwhelming majority of the women are out of shape? Have you noticed that the good-looking girls are usually accompanied by three or four friends who are out of shape? When you ask your wing men to do the honors, do they all seem to want the same one you want?

    The obesity problem in the United States, which is evident in nightclubs, malls, parks, hospitals, churches— everywhere you go—has two effects on the Western dating scene, both negative. First, it decreases the numbers of attractive women. Second, it boosts the egos of the fewer women who do look good, because it puts them in such high demand! It’s simply supply and demand. As the number of sexy, curvy women diminishes, due to obesity and weight gain, the women that do keep in shape become more sought out and are given much more attention.

    If we look at the above image we see what a normal environment would look like. Although there are no environments on this planet where 100% of the women are in decent shape, we see that when there are more in shape women, the attention of the men is evenly distributed among all the women. But what happens when Weight gain and Obesity takes over?

    According to the CDCs latest statistics, approximately 70% of the U.S. population is overweight and almost 40% of women are Obese. Using the governments own numbers, most of which are probably understated, look at the image on the next page to see the effects one ONE handicap, obesity, has on the dating environment.

    Based on the current obesity and weight gain numbers only about 30% of the women in the United States are in shape. Not counting any other handicaps, this would mean that these 30% of the women receive the attention of 100% of the men. Now a girl that may only have had 3 guys after her, now has 10 guys asking her out on a date.

    Because these in-shape women are so sought after, through no fault of their own they grow what’s known as a “bitch shield.” An attitude to fend off a good number of men that will approach her. In response to this, men have to learn “game,” or stand out in some other way, in order to catch the attention of these very few attractive women.

    As you can see out of the ten guys seeking out the three attractive women, only three guys will succeed and the other 7 will have to settle for something else or stay single. Considering this is only one handicap, you can see how things can ugly when we start to add more layers to this sour tasting cake.

    As the chapter continues I go onto explain some of the other effects obesity has on your dating environment. Keep in mind this is only one of the many handicaps that you might be facing in your local dating environment. Of course there will always be some men that can overcome all the handicaps and date many attractive women, but not everyone can be Michael Jordan.

    But in places like Costa Rica, Colombia, Brazil, Ukraine, Russia and others, obesity and other handicaps aren’t as big of an issue or present at all. These are the REAL reasons why the dating environment in many foreign countries is actually skewed towards the men, instead of towards the women, like it is in most places in the USA.


  • Latin America – Where Cute Faces and Thin Waists Are the Norm

    Posted on July 1st, 2009 Dan DeLa Cruz No comments

    Today I would like to talk about Latin American women.

    I’m talking about Latin American women from Latin America who are very Latina and cherish their culture. But apart from having a very traditional, feminine culture (unlike many women in the USA who have a more masculine mindset), women in Latin America look great. Latin America has been a melting pot where there has been a mix between European, African, and Indigenous populations. Many people argue that this mix has created a more well balanced and very attractive population, especially in areas where there has been a more even mix between cultures and races.

    Places like Brazil, Colombia, Cuba, and Costa Rica are perfect examples of this.

    In Latin America my friends, MOST women look great. And why is this? The truth is that in the USA roughly half of the women have lost their feminine curves due to the overweight and obesity epidemic.

    Yes, obesity is an issue in the USA. More then half of all Americans are overweight. Out of this, roughly 25% are considered obese, and this number is continuously growing. One other frightening fact is that obesity tends to affect women in more severity then men.

    While more then half American women are 20 to 30 pounds over their normal body weight, and roughly 25% are more then 30 pounds over, in Latin America, around 90% of the women are thin and in good shape.

    Even those who fall in the minority 10% that are not thin or in shape, are usually a few pounds over, but not obese. In fact, if you’ve ever traveled to Latin America you know that on most of your trips you will never almost never encounter an obese person. You may encounter some older men in their 40’s with beer belly’s, and some older ladies with a little extra weight, but the younger crowds are all fit and thin, and definitely not obese.

    This is why “Beauty” is the norm south of the border. In Latin American countries most women look great, because they have thin waists and that psychologically mind numbing .7 hip to wast ratio which drives men crazy. And you can find these feminine silhouettes just about everywhere you look in Latin America. Since most women look great, your dating prospects are truly among the best in the world.

    Let’s not forget that apart from their looks, the women of Latin America are some of the most down to earth and sweet women on this planet, but let’s face it, you and me both know that looks do count for something, and these women are top shape… No man can argue with that.

    Any guy, no matter who you are or where your from can and will have success in any Latin American country.

    I challenge you to travel to any Latin American country and see for yourself. As a good friend of mine once said “seeing is believing”.

    Once you see how great and just how “beauty” is the Norm in Latin America, you will see what the rest of the world has to offer for your dating and romantic life. Trust me, there’s a whole world out there waiting to be discovered. A world filled with romantic opportunities, with young women, with thing waists, who take care of themselves and to top it all off, are very very friendly. Ahh yes… That is Latin America, where beauty is the norm for women.