Mail Order Bride Beaters Need Not Apply

Part of the reason there is such a bad connotation with mail order brides, international dating, and foreign women is because of irresponsible, wife beating guys who take advantage of foreign women. Personally I have no respect for men that beat their wives or any woman for that matter. If you want to slug it out, do it with a guy your own size.

There’s also those men who want to keep their foreign wife or girlfriend locked up in the house against her will. And those that verbally abuse and keep women in abusive relationships. That’s not what my website is about and if you’re just looking for a woman to abuse in any of these ways, then please look elsewhere.

These are the types of guys who give feminists, the media, and politicians the amo needed to establish laws like the IMBRA.

However, there are two problems with the people that try to paint all international dating and all men who seek out foreign women as guys who just want to abuse “innocent, helpless, uneducated” foreign women.

#1. First of all these people fail to realize the domestic violence and abuse is a common occurrence, even among domestic couples. Just take a look at some of these statistics, taken from the commission on domestic violence:

• In a 1995-1996 study conducted in the 50 States and the District of Columbia, nearly 25% of women and 7.6% of men were raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, or dating partner/acquaintance at some time in their lifetime (based on survey of 16,000 participants, equally male and female).
• Intimate partner violence made up 20% of all nonfatal violent crime experienced by women in 2001.
• Of females killed with a firearm, almost two-thirds were killed by their intimate partners. The number of females shot and killed by their husband or intimate partner was more than three times higher than the total number murdered by male strangers using all weapons combined in single victim/single offender incidents in 2002.

The people that don’t take this into account make it seem as though domestic couples never experience domestic violence or abuse and only foreign women are victims.

#2. They don’t understand that there are a lot of good guys who are just tired of dealing with the women of the developed nations, for many reasons. I’ll list some of the most common reasons:

• Obesity: A lot of these women are simply out of shape and not attractive
• Feminism: Many of these women have lost touch with their true feminine side. They don’t know how to show true affection, and be totally feminine with a man because they see it as a sign of weakness. By the same token this is one of the reasons why they don’t feel they need to be in shape and have feminine curves.
• Divorce rate: There are many guys who are scared to date these women because of all of the horror stories or domestic marriages. Ever heard of the 5 year itch? or the 50% divorce rate?
• Something different: It may never occur to people that foreign women are different. Some men find the accent sexy, or the way they dress, or the way they treat their men, or the way they dance, or the way they look. In today’s world it’s acceptable to invest in foreign countries, it’s acceptable to buy foreign made cars, it’s acceptable to travel and do business abroad, but to some people it’s not acceptable to look for romance abroad. What’s with the double standards?

If there are any women out there who happen to stumble onto to this post and wonder why International Dating is on the rise, you should consider reading my book “The Global Dating Revolution”, which in the first part of the book explains all of the cultural, environmental, economic, and demographic reasons why foreign women are more appealing to men. Also read The Art of Being Feminine by Melina Dean. I actually quote her book, in my book:

“Have you ever wondered why men are so attracted to foreign (non-Western) women?…in case you are thinking that I’m a Russian or foreign woman myself, think again! I’m a Western woman…men are getting fed up with… women who seem to no longer even want to think about wanting to please a man, and also appear as too aggressive, too independent, and don’t cultivate their femininity. I can see how that is a turn off to men…”

Nothing will ever be perfect. There will unfortunately be some foreign women who get involved with the wrong men. However, I’m not out to help or assist those men. My website is dedicated to helping all the good guys who put smiles on foreign women’s faces, and who end up with ear to ear smiles themselves. Don’t lump us all into the same group.

To All The Doubters

The Question of Proof

Although 99% of you out there KNOW that I speak the truth about the accessibility, friendliness and attractiveness of foreign women, I’ve had a few doubters question my authenticity.

So with this post I’m going to address any and all doubts that have been expressed about the matter:

#1. You want proof? Prove it to yourself!

I’m sharing with you things I’ve learned over the course of a 10-year period. I know this stuff works, because I’ve seen it change the lives of many men, but you don’t need to watch me picking up some girl in a mall to know it’s true. What I suggest is to take one trip, one vacation, one weekend, to any place in South East Asia, Latin America, or Eastern Europe, and go out into the malls, into the city, and into the bars and clubs. While you’re there you will most likely notice that the women are more flirtatious, and numerous, and if you approach, you will have better results then what you get back at home. All of you doubters out there, should go and give it a shot, and then when you come back as a converted global dater, then you can get my book and find out WHY foreign environments and foreign women are so different in the first place.

#2. You want proof? Ask a someone else!

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. Find someone in your social circle that has traveled to one of these regions and ask them about the women. Better yet, find a guy that has lived down there. Don’t take my word for it, ask someone else. Most likely, any guy that has traveled outside to what I like to call the “lower tiers” has noticed a few of the things I point out in my videos and books. Now, you won’t get as in depth an analysis as I’ve done in my books, because I actively broke this stuff down over several years and analyzed and tested everything to get to this point , but you will get an agreement that the dating environment favors the males in these parts of the world.

#3. The proof is in the book.

If you would actually take the time to read my book, you would realize that I back up all my information with facts, and a lot of data. I’m not just spewing out random information; I actively broke down the social dynamics of both upper and lower tiers to come up with my global dating revolution book. Every guy that has read the book, has said they’ve gotten their money’s worth. I sell the book for $27, but I believe the information and knowledge that the reader gets is easily worth 10 times more, if not priceless, and the overwhelming positive response I’ve gotten from the readers leads me to believe my assumption is right.

#4. The point of my videos are to show you the beauty of foreign women

One of the points I make in my book is that, for various reasons, the lower tiers are filled with more attractive women that the upper tiers. My videos are an attempt to portray this fact by showing you the beauty of women in places like Brazil, Costa Rica, and Colombia.

#5. You don’t want to believe me? Be my guest, stay where you are and we’ll talk in 10 years and see if you’re ready to try out something new.

Hey if you want to stay in LA, or Chicago, or wherever you are and keep chasing after your local women there, be my guest. But as for me and the thousands of readers of my blog, we know where the real action is! You can have LA, me and my guys will gladly take Medellin Colombia and Belo Horizonte Brazil. If you don’t want to hear me out and give my advice a try, you’re the only one that looses out.

#6. Yes this is a business.

Yes, I have left my normal full time job to pursue a new career as a global dating adviser and author. Yes, I want to sell my book, but I do so in an ethical manner. My approach is to give you as much free material as possible, that provides you with value. I feel I’ve given hundreds of dollars in value through my blog and videos and in return, if you’d like to learn more about global dating you can pay $27 and get the book and get even more value. As I’ve said before, every guy that has read the book has had nothing but great reviews.

Now having covered all of the objections I’d like to say one thing. I’m open to the idea of video taping some of the approaches I do in public places while I’m in Latin America. Right now, as you may know, I’m living in Barranquilla Colombia. I only see two problems with this, as of now. First of all, all of the approaches will be in Spanish or Portuguese (If I’m in Brazil). So if you guys don’t speak the language, you won’t know what the hell I’m saying. Another problem is that I don’t have the equipment to do this. I’m going to have to purchase a small wearable camera, and a wearable wireless mic so that I can capture everything in the interaction. It’s something that I’m open to, and I’ll look into, but regardless of whether I actually tape any approaches you should have more then enough proof just by taking your own trip, reading my blog and book, and asking other people, even other people on this blog.

Later,

Foreign Women Only Want Your Money

Overview:
There are many ways to dubunk the myth that foreign women only treat you well for your money or to get ticket out the country. While gold-diggers and scammers do exist, they are in a very tiny minority. Foreign women don’t reserve this special treatment, just for you. They treat their local men, just as good as they will treat you. So it’s not just about the money as you will soon find out.

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One of the biggest myths out there about foreign women is that they’re all looking for a ticket out of their country, and they all want your money and a green card. There are many ways to disprove this point of view but today I want to focus on just one of those ways.

First of all, I’d like to say that there are gold diggers out there and there are women who may be looking for a ticket out. So, I would suggest getting to know the person as thoroughly as possible and getting my book “The Global Dating Revolution”, which will give you everything you need to know so that you don’t get snagged by a scammer. But the reality is that scammers are everywhere these days, and it’s a fact of life no matter where you go or what you do.

The good news is that scammers make a very small percentage of foreign women, and most foreign women are nice, decent girls who just want to find the right guy.
By now you must know that one of my biggest points is that foreign women are they way they are because of the environment they live in. It’s an environment that totally favors men, whereas the environment YOU live in favors women.

When you go into a foreign girls home turf, you enter a complete role reversal from what you are use to where you live back at home. Back at home, you’ve always had to fight for the girl and fight to keep her, and it’s always been an uphill battle. You may never have noticed this, because you’ve never lived in a place like the Philippines, or Colombia, so you never had a point of reference. Now, if you’ve already traveled you’ve probably started to notice this role reversal on your travels, and you might have an idea of what I’m talking about.

So, what I want to do, is challenge you right now. I want you to go out into your neighborhood, or find someone in your job or in your social circle who is from one of these regions. I want you to find someone who basically grew up and has lived in Costa Rica, Colombia, Brazil, Philippines, Thailand, Ukraine, Russia, or any of the other countries located in those regions. And what I want you to do is talk to that person and ask them how the dating scene is back in their homeland. Maybe take them out for a beer and if it’s a guy, ask the dude, so how are the women back in your country?

I can put money, a lot of money that if you talk to a guy from another country, the guy will probably confirm that back in his country, the women are more attractive, friendlier and more accessible. And you can talk to any Colombian guy, Brazilian guy, Filipino guy, Russian guy, they will say the same thing. When it comes to women, you can’t beat their homeland.

But here is the funny thing. If you happen to meet a woman from these regions and you ask them the same thing. Most of these women will have an opposite view. They find that they like the dating scene, and the men of here a lot more then back at home.

Don’t take my word for it. Do some research of your own. Talk to people that have traveled extensively, people that are from the regions that I describe in my material, and find out for your self.

So what’s my point in all of this? What I want to show you is that any man that comes from let’s say Costa Rica, will tell you that when he was in Costa Rica, he had a great time with women. He was in control. If he wanted flings, he had them. If he wanted something long term he had that too. Same goes for guys in Brazil and guys in Argentina, etc. Even better, when you travel, talk to some of the local Brazilian guys who still live down there, and they will confirm the same sentiment.

So my point is that all of the men down there have a great life, as far as women are concerned. This is all due to the fact that they happen to live in a place that offers them great advantages over the opposite sex. So if all of the Brazilian guys are doing great with women, and you step into the mix in Brazil, why wouldn’t you do good? If a regular Brazilian guy has success down there? Then why does everyone, attribute your success to gold digging? Aren’t you a man also?

My point is that all of the men down there enjoy these environmental advantages and the main reason that foreign women will be more open and friendly to you is because when you step into that environment, you automatically enjoy the same advantages that all of the other Latin American, Eastern European, and South East Asian men share.

Now the icing on the cake, is that as a man who speaks English, and traveling from an economically advanced nation, you will enjoy a positive perception from the women because of your culture, your native language, and where your coming from. This is just the added bonus, on top of the other advantages you will already have in your favor.