Mail Order Bride Beaters Need Not Apply

Part of the reason there is such a bad connotation with mail order brides, international dating, and foreign women is because of irresponsible, wife beating guys who take advantage of foreign women. Personally I have no respect for men that beat their wives or any woman for that matter. If you want to slug it out, do it with a guy your own size.

There’s also those men who want to keep their foreign wife or girlfriend locked up in the house against her will. And those that verbally abuse and keep women in abusive relationships. That’s not what my website is about and if you’re just looking for a woman to abuse in any of these ways, then please look elsewhere.

These are the types of guys who give feminists, the media, and politicians the amo needed to establish laws like the IMBRA.

However, there are two problems with the people that try to paint all international dating and all men who seek out foreign women as guys who just want to abuse “innocent, helpless, uneducated” foreign women.

#1. First of all these people fail to realize the domestic violence and abuse is a common occurrence, even among domestic couples. Just take a look at some of these statistics, taken from the commission on domestic violence:

• In a 1995-1996 study conducted in the 50 States and the District of Columbia, nearly 25% of women and 7.6% of men were raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, or dating partner/acquaintance at some time in their lifetime (based on survey of 16,000 participants, equally male and female).
• Intimate partner violence made up 20% of all nonfatal violent crime experienced by women in 2001.
• Of females killed with a firearm, almost two-thirds were killed by their intimate partners. The number of females shot and killed by their husband or intimate partner was more than three times higher than the total number murdered by male strangers using all weapons combined in single victim/single offender incidents in 2002.

The people that don’t take this into account make it seem as though domestic couples never experience domestic violence or abuse and only foreign women are victims.

#2. They don’t understand that there are a lot of good guys who are just tired of dealing with the women of the developed nations, for many reasons. I’ll list some of the most common reasons:

• Obesity: A lot of these women are simply out of shape and not attractive
• Feminism: Many of these women have lost touch with their true feminine side. They don’t know how to show true affection, and be totally feminine with a man because they see it as a sign of weakness. By the same token this is one of the reasons why they don’t feel they need to be in shape and have feminine curves.
• Divorce rate: There are many guys who are scared to date these women because of all of the horror stories or domestic marriages. Ever heard of the 5 year itch? or the 50% divorce rate?
• Something different: It may never occur to people that foreign women are different. Some men find the accent sexy, or the way they dress, or the way they treat their men, or the way they dance, or the way they look. In today’s world it’s acceptable to invest in foreign countries, it’s acceptable to buy foreign made cars, it’s acceptable to travel and do business abroad, but to some people it’s not acceptable to look for romance abroad. What’s with the double standards?

If there are any women out there who happen to stumble onto to this post and wonder why International Dating is on the rise, you should consider reading my book “The Global Dating Revolution”, which in the first part of the book explains all of the cultural, environmental, economic, and demographic reasons why foreign women are more appealing to men. Also read The Art of Being Feminine by Melina Dean. I actually quote her book, in my book:

“Have you ever wondered why men are so attracted to foreign (non-Western) women?…in case you are thinking that I’m a Russian or foreign woman myself, think again! I’m a Western woman…men are getting fed up with… women who seem to no longer even want to think about wanting to please a man, and also appear as too aggressive, too independent, and don’t cultivate their femininity. I can see how that is a turn off to men…”

Nothing will ever be perfect. There will unfortunately be some foreign women who get involved with the wrong men. However, I’m not out to help or assist those men. My website is dedicated to helping all the good guys who put smiles on foreign women’s faces, and who end up with ear to ear smiles themselves. Don’t lump us all into the same group.